It started last night by sleeping in my own bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't explain the feeling, going from a cramped twin to a comforting queen sized bed. *Please, save the queen jokes, not that kind of gay ;)*
I then got some calls from family and friends which were much appreciated.
Eve stopped by with some coffee and a gift- more coffee!. :D
I jammed to none other than Scissor Sisters Ta-Dah album for the next few hours. Might have a music crush on that Jake Shears?! HAha
Paroozed facebook for way to long.
Another phone call from aunt #2.....not sure if I've mentioned her on here?
Dinner with mom and youngest bro, dad is on hunting trip.
Went to see Four Christmases with Eve. Pretty good, a few "cameo" type appearances by Sissy Spacek, and OMG freakin' CHRISTINE CHENOWETH!!!!!! I might kinda wanna stalk her.
Iron and Wine called and we talked about plans for this weekend in Auburn. Looking forward to that.............."oooooooh yeah!" lol!
Auntie M. also called and sang to meh. Man I love her. She also sent me a package- a shirt with a note that was just great. Even though the shirt was a 2x it's the thought that counts right?
Tangent: I hate when people assume things like shirt size. I would much rather someone ask me. "A medium" i'd say, rather than a 2XL. I guess I can't really blame them. It wasn't too long ago that I was 5'11" and 240Lbs.
*summer- 2005
*Summer 2008- A much happier 6'2" 170-ish *end Tangent
Oh, lastly. When does one try and move a friendship toward more that such? Especially if the other party is in a different "emotional" place? Should party A ask party B and risk rejection? Or Should I.....er- uh "party A" just enjoy the friend for now and let things happen/ not happen, organically?
I don't usually ask for comments but please, if you have made it this far............jot a few thoughts down. After all it is my birthday. ;)
~`E
1 comment:
Either just ask and get a straight answer, then at least you'll know.
Or you can insinuate that you are intrested in more than friendship; bring it up jokingly, add some friendly touching (hand on shoulder etc.) and see how it plays out. But he might not catch on or he might be intrested, but unsure if you're serious or just goofing around. So eventually you may have too ask directly anyway. but by then you've hopefully noticed if he seems un-/intrested.
It's hard to give advice without knowing the situation. Good luck!
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